New Delhi, July 26
“I tried my best to give them everything that a mother would. When I look back, I know I have done my part in making their lives better,” says 87-year-old Sudha (title modified) as she fondly recollects her youthful days spent caring for youngsters at an orphanage.
Sudha mentioned she all the time needed to do one thing significant in her life however after her mom handed away, she discovered herself slowed down by familial tasks.
Next got here the strain from her household to get married. However, as a substitute of marrying somebody and beginning a household, she selected to grow to be household for many who didn’t have one.
She began working with SOS Children’s Village, Faridabad on the age of 31.
“In the past 50 years, I have been a parent to around 30 children,” the proud mom informed PTI on Sunday on the event of Parents’ Day.
Sukriti Sharma, 64, who has labored with numerous childcare houses throughout the nation, is one other such mother or father.
She began working with an orphanage after her mom handed away. Taking care of youngsters was not solely a means to assist them however herself too.
“After suddenly losing my mother, I became very depressed and wanted to help those who did not have parents. I decided to become a caregiver to orphaned children. Living my life around children gave me a bigger purpose,” she mentioned.
Having taken care of round 15 youngsters at a childcare house in Delhi over the previous 20 years, Sharma mentioned they’re her actual household now.
“Some of these children had come from very difficult situations. It is particularly difficult to deal with older children. They remember their families and also the trauma they suffered. In that case, we first become their friends, make them feel safe and then gradually take the role of a parent,” she mentioned.
Working with childcare houses for twenty years now, 53-year-old Padma Rawat has taken care of 24 youngsters, seven of whom at the moment are married.
After her household didn’t approve of the person she needed to marry, Rawat determined to not marry anybody else and commit her life to caring for youngsters who shouldn’t have anybody to take care of them.
“Today my family has more than 35 members with sons-in-law, daughters-in-law and grandchildren,” she mentioned.
For 67-year-old Mariam (title modified), a home violence survivor who has been working with orphanages for 15 years, the kids have given her the love of a household.
After her husband remarried and threw her out of their home, she had nowhere to go. She discovered shelter at a authorities house and skilled to maintain parentless youngsters.
“After 15 years now, I am finally content. I have taken care of around 26 children who are now more than my family. I have not been in touch with anyone from my biological family. It is these children who helped me get back on my feet,” Mariam mentioned.
“We are connected not by blood but love,” she sums up. PTI